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		<title>By: Five simple steps for a more attractive blog.</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-27461</link>
		<dc:creator>Five simple steps for a more attractive blog.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 20:56:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Ten Blogging Mistakes by Darcy at My 3 Boybarians Blog Desgin: Keep it Clutter-Free and User Friendly by Melanie at Blogging Basics 101 Basic Blog Design Principles by Karla at Modern Media Mom [...]</description>
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		<title>By: brandi</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-26421</link>
		<dc:creator>brandi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:27:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! have spent a good part of my evening reading through your blog. I am so impressed with your site. Your tips and suggestions are very helpful. As a new blogger I can really appreciate all that you have to say. Thank-you so much for posting on this topic! I am excited to subscribe to your post!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! have spent a good part of my evening reading through your blog. I am so impressed with your site. Your tips and suggestions are very helpful. As a new blogger I can really appreciate all that you have to say. Thank-you so much for posting on this topic! I am excited to subscribe to your post!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel R.</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-21672</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel R.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Aug 2010 03:25:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do have Akismet, and I do have comments with more than 2 links on moderation.  I still get spam.  So I liken it more to inviting people over, but keeping the front door locked until they knock and I let them in - because I know there are thugs in the neighborhood. ;)  I do definitely prefer it, though, when all comment &quot;hurdles&quot; are visible up-front; I hate going through multiple steps to get a comment posted.  (And I really don&#039;t like Blogger pop-up comment windows.  They never work right for me, so I pretty much never comment on blogs that use them.)

Interesting point, though, about moderating comments on older posts.  It is true that the spam is most often on less recent posts.

Thanks for all the food for thought. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do have Akismet, and I do have comments with more than 2 links on moderation.  I still get spam.  So I liken it more to inviting people over, but keeping the front door locked until they knock and I let them in &#8211; because I know there are thugs in the neighborhood. <img src='http://my3boybarians.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   I do definitely prefer it, though, when all comment &#8220;hurdles&#8221; are visible up-front; I hate going through multiple steps to get a comment posted.  (And I really don&#8217;t like Blogger pop-up comment windows.  They never work right for me, so I pretty much never comment on blogs that use them.)</p>
<p>Interesting point, though, about moderating comments on older posts.  It is true that the spam is most often on less recent posts.</p>
<p>Thanks for all the food for thought. <img src='http://my3boybarians.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Darcy</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-21660</link>
		<dc:creator>Darcy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 23:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No kidding?  That&#039;s fantastic news.  WTG Blogger!  I knew it was a matter of time before they upped their protection for their bloggers.

Great news!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No kidding?  That&#8217;s fantastic news.  WTG Blogger!  I knew it was a matter of time before they upped their protection for their bloggers.</p>
<p>Great news!</p>
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		<title>By: Alea</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-21653</link>
		<dc:creator>Alea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 21:30:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, blogspot bloggers now have spam protection. It is automatic and you do not have to set it up. Since added, it has caught all of the spam in English and most in Japanese. :) If a blogspot blogger does not feel comfortable relying on the spam protection, then I recommend allowing all comments, including anonymous, but putting comment moderation on posts older than 1 week. Spammers usually hit the older posts, hoping to escape your notice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, blogspot bloggers now have spam protection. It is automatic and you do not have to set it up. Since added, it has caught all of the spam in English and most in Japanese. <img src='http://my3boybarians.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  If a blogspot blogger does not feel comfortable relying on the spam protection, then I recommend allowing all comments, including anonymous, but putting comment moderation on posts older than 1 week. Spammers usually hit the older posts, hoping to escape your notice.</p>
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		<title>By: Darcy</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-21652</link>
		<dc:creator>Darcy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 20:51:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I liken it to inviting dinner guests over, welcoming them into my home, but then putting a padlock on the refrigerator.

It&#039;s up to the blogger to create an environment that welcomes conversation and encourages feedback - even if the feedback is aggressive or hostile or disagrees with them. That&#039;s the true spirit of conversation! Word verification comes off as a bit unwelcoming.

With the use of Akismet, a list of common spam words in the comment filter, moderating comments with 2 or more links (a sure sign of spamming is including links), it&#039;s not necessary to have humans try and fumble through a messy filter. There are automated ways to do it that don&#039;t require anything by the readers. Those ways make for a much more user-friendly experience. You should do the comment filter work on your end so they don&#039;t have to. It&#039;s a courtesy to your reader.

Having readers stop by is a privilege. We should make it as easy for them as possible to participate. I want my blog to feel like a community - not a one way street where I speak at people and they can speak back after completing tasks.

This isn&#039;t possible for Blogspot bloggers, and I totally understand the lack of technology is working against them. But Wordpress bloggers have the power to do the work on their end so their readers don&#039;t have to. I love Wordpress!

In that case, if it&#039;s necessary because of a lower-end tech blog, like Blogspot - having the word verification visible is better. Knowing I&#039;ll have to earn my ability to leave a comment is much better than having it pop up as a sneak-attack after the fact.

Thanks for the feedback. Always appreciate conversation &#039;round here. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I liken it to inviting dinner guests over, welcoming them into my home, but then putting a padlock on the refrigerator.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s up to the blogger to create an environment that welcomes conversation and encourages feedback &#8211; even if the feedback is aggressive or hostile or disagrees with them. That&#8217;s the true spirit of conversation! Word verification comes off as a bit unwelcoming.</p>
<p>With the use of Akismet, a list of common spam words in the comment filter, moderating comments with 2 or more links (a sure sign of spamming is including links), it&#8217;s not necessary to have humans try and fumble through a messy filter. There are automated ways to do it that don&#8217;t require anything by the readers. Those ways make for a much more user-friendly experience. You should do the comment filter work on your end so they don&#8217;t have to. It&#8217;s a courtesy to your reader.</p>
<p>Having readers stop by is a privilege. We should make it as easy for them as possible to participate. I want my blog to feel like a community &#8211; not a one way street where I speak at people and they can speak back after completing tasks.</p>
<p>This isn&#8217;t possible for Blogspot bloggers, and I totally understand the lack of technology is working against them. But WordPress bloggers have the power to do the work on their end so their readers don&#8217;t have to. I love WordPress!</p>
<p>In that case, if it&#8217;s necessary because of a lower-end tech blog, like Blogspot &#8211; having the word verification visible is better. Knowing I&#8217;ll have to earn my ability to leave a comment is much better than having it pop up as a sneak-attack after the fact.</p>
<p>Thanks for the feedback. Always appreciate conversation &#8217;round here. <img src='http://my3boybarians.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Rachel R.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel R.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 12:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seriously, you are turned off by word verification?!  Do you want every blogger in the world to be so overrun by spam that we have to turn off all commenting, period?  I totally agree with most of your list - and with the spirit of #9 - but I have to completely disagree with your interpretation of that one.  The purpose of of word verification (or partially moderated comments, usually) is NOT to limit comments; it&#039;s to limit SPAM comments.  I, for one, get dozens of spam comments for each real comment, even with other spam-protective measures in place.  I currently don&#039;t have a captcha, but I totally understand that their purpose is to ensure that you, the commenter, are a real person and not a &#039;bot (See #&#039;s 1 &amp; 2 ;) ), and sufficiently appreciate the time invested in those blogs I read to spend the half a second it takes to type a word that helps those bloggers save hours of spam filtering.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously, you are turned off by word verification?!  Do you want every blogger in the world to be so overrun by spam that we have to turn off all commenting, period?  I totally agree with most of your list &#8211; and with the spirit of #9 &#8211; but I have to completely disagree with your interpretation of that one.  The purpose of of word verification (or partially moderated comments, usually) is NOT to limit comments; it&#8217;s to limit SPAM comments.  I, for one, get dozens of spam comments for each real comment, even with other spam-protective measures in place.  I currently don&#8217;t have a captcha, but I totally understand that their purpose is to ensure that you, the commenter, are a real person and not a &#8216;bot (See #&#8217;s 1 &amp; 2 <img src='http://my3boybarians.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  ), and sufficiently appreciate the time invested in those blogs I read to spend the half a second it takes to type a word that helps those bloggers save hours of spam filtering.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy {aka MommaHen}</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-20888</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy {aka MommaHen}</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 17:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laughing! I have been reading a few of your blog entries. and. i . love. you.  (well okay, not like , litterally, I&#039;m stalking you kind of love) Straight forward good reads. I&#039;ll be followin&#039; ya! btw- I HAVE to add, I sooo agree with you on the music thing. One of my favorite blogs has a &quot;theme song&quot;(?) ugh. So annoyed. I try to read the posts as QUICk as I can and get out of there before it kicks in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laughing! I have been reading a few of your blog entries. and. i . love. you.  (well okay, not like , litterally, I&#8217;m stalking you kind of love) Straight forward good reads. I&#8217;ll be followin&#8217; ya! btw- I HAVE to add, I sooo agree with you on the music thing. One of my favorite blogs has a &#8220;theme song&#8221;(?) ugh. So annoyed. I try to read the posts as QUICk as I can and get out of there before it kicks in.</p>
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		<title>By: Alea</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-20441</link>
		<dc:creator>Alea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:13:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post! I know I have broken 6, 7, &amp;10 at various times in my blogging career. 

BTW, more people have landed on my post &quot;Legal Stimulants&quot; than any other post. I am sure they are disappointed with what they find and it is a good reason  to avoid cutsie titles. :D I should have titled it French Vanilla Creamer Recipe.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! I know I have broken 6, 7, &amp;10 at various times in my blogging career. </p>
<p>BTW, more people have landed on my post &#8220;Legal Stimulants&#8221; than any other post. I am sure they are disappointed with what they find and it is a good reason  to avoid cutsie titles. <img src='http://my3boybarians.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  I should have titled it French Vanilla Creamer Recipe.</p>
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		<title>By: Crystal &#38; Co</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-17841</link>
		<dc:creator>Crystal &#38; Co</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 May 2010 14:14:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great tips. 

The comment captcha.... never thought about that making it difficult. I honestly thought it was a security feature. Better look into removing that!  :-)

I love how much you use your footer on your blog. I think a lot of people forget it as being an option when preparing their design.
.-= Crystal &amp; CoÂ´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.crystalandcomp.com/2010/05/womans-day-planner-winner.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Womans Day Planner Winner!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great tips. </p>
<p>The comment captcha&#8230;. never thought about that making it difficult. I honestly thought it was a security feature. Better look into removing that!  <img src='http://my3boybarians.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I love how much you use your footer on your blog. I think a lot of people forget it as being an option when preparing their design.<br />
.-= Crystal &amp; CoÂ´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.crystalandcomp.com/2010/05/womans-day-planner-winner.html"  rel="nofollow">Womans Day Planner Winner!</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Sherry</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-16107</link>
		<dc:creator>Sherry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2010 12:53:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your advice.  I am enjoying the new blog I started in January and would like to make it as reader-friendly as possible.  I got several tips from your site that I will implement.

Sherry @ A Happy Valentine
.-= SherryÂ´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://ahappyvalentine.blogspot.com/2010/04/pink-saturday_29.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Pink Saturday&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your advice.  I am enjoying the new blog I started in January and would like to make it as reader-friendly as possible.  I got several tips from your site that I will implement.</p>
<p>Sherry @ A Happy Valentine<br />
.-= SherryÂ´s last blog ..<a href="http://ahappyvalentine.blogspot.com/2010/04/pink-saturday_29.html"  rel="nofollow">Pink Saturday</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: SarahinSC</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-16026</link>
		<dc:creator>SarahinSC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 12:10:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great advice! I especially agree with the messiness of the sidebar. I like a clean blog! Yours is clean. I like that. Some people like chaos, and that&#039;s fine, it&#039;s just not for me!
.-= SarahinSCÂ´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://randomthoughtsfromamomsperspective.blogspot.com/2010/05/photo-improvement-contest-may-3-2010.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Photo Improvement Contest â€“ May 3 2010&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great advice! I especially agree with the messiness of the sidebar. I like a clean blog! Yours is clean. I like that. Some people like chaos, and that&#8217;s fine, it&#8217;s just not for me!<br />
.-= SarahinSCÂ´s last blog ..<a href="http://randomthoughtsfromamomsperspective.blogspot.com/2010/05/photo-improvement-contest-may-3-2010.html"  rel="nofollow">Photo Improvement Contest â€“ May 3 2010</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Brenda Salzano</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brenda Salzano</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 23:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with all but #9. I dont mind putting in code words IF I can read them!  Some are so fuzzy I can not decipher what the letters are.  I know I am old but hey!  I am still learning and I have three blogs, and one web domain.  Loving the world of blogging, and great photography!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with all but #9. I dont mind putting in code words IF I can read them!  Some are so fuzzy I can not decipher what the letters are.  I know I am old but hey!  I am still learning and I have three blogs, and one web domain.  Loving the world of blogging, and great photography!!</p>
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		<title>By: Mama Cas</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-11257</link>
		<dc:creator>Mama Cas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 01:19:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just found your blog and I love this post.  Automatic music irritates the SNOT out of me.  You want music on your blog?  That&#039;s great......but please leave it up to ME whether I want to listen or not.  If my computer has been left at full volume (by my kids) and I click onto a blog with auto-music?  I immediately rush to shut it down.  End of story.

I&#039;m very new to the blog world, but I&#039;ve been around just long enough to know I pretty much agree with everything you wrote.  As for the comments section....I have all of my comments e-mailed to me first so I can approve or moderate them.  This technique came in handy last week when I got a spam message.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just found your blog and I love this post.  Automatic music irritates the SNOT out of me.  You want music on your blog?  That&#8217;s great&#8230;&#8230;but please leave it up to ME whether I want to listen or not.  If my computer has been left at full volume (by my kids) and I click onto a blog with auto-music?  I immediately rush to shut it down.  End of story.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m very new to the blog world, but I&#8217;ve been around just long enough to know I pretty much agree with everything you wrote.  As for the comments section&#8230;.I have all of my comments e-mailed to me first so I can approve or moderate them.  This technique came in handy last week when I got a spam message.</p>
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		<title>By: Joy</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-10842</link>
		<dc:creator>Joy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 21:48:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Read your tips with interest... I&#039;m sticking with my music. It&#039;s part of who I am and is part of the atmosphere of my blog.  I&#039;ve had many, many compliments on my music choices, people even telling me that they have the blog on for background music at work and they say it&#039;s soothing, relaxing, and they&#039;ve been exposed to musician&#039;s they would not have been exposed to before.  The ones that don&#039;t like the music, they can turn off/down their speakers--or go to a different blog. It&#039;s my blog and I love it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Read your tips with interest&#8230; I&#8217;m sticking with my music. It&#8217;s part of who I am and is part of the atmosphere of my blog.  I&#8217;ve had many, many compliments on my music choices, people even telling me that they have the blog on for background music at work and they say it&#8217;s soothing, relaxing, and they&#8217;ve been exposed to musician&#8217;s they would not have been exposed to before.  The ones that don&#8217;t like the music, they can turn off/down their speakers&#8211;or go to a different blog. It&#8217;s my blog and I love it.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Lopez</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah Lopez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 04:48:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Darcy,

I love your suggestions here and I want to ask you if you would  please review my blog and then email me what your honest thoughts are?  But then again, I read how you&#039;ll leave once you hear music and I actually do have music playing on my automatically.  But would you mind doing a little suggestion/thought review anyhow?    I, of course, did not create my design but donated to someone else to do so, but I did add all the sidebar &#039;stuff&#039; (mainly button links, or actual links) and of course everything else printed on there is from me as well.  

I&#039;m in the works of creating a website for my photography shots (though I&#039;m still far from being a Pro like your hubby is), but the lady that did my blog said she doesn&#039;t do flash headers, which I would love to having showing some various images I took with my camera.  

Do you have a tab that shows your fees for designing sites or just custom flash headers?  What about if I say I&#039;m related to you or your hubby, would that decrease the cost???  I&#039;m not though, but what if I were to say I was?  Would it deduct anything?  LOL....can&#039;t keep that going to well!  LOL!  

Nice to meet you.  Love you site and what you&#039;ve done with your husbands professional header as well.  Looks awesome!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Darcy,</p>
<p>I love your suggestions here and I want to ask you if you would  please review my blog and then email me what your honest thoughts are?  But then again, I read how you&#8217;ll leave once you hear music and I actually do have music playing on my automatically.  But would you mind doing a little suggestion/thought review anyhow?    I, of course, did not create my design but donated to someone else to do so, but I did add all the sidebar &#8216;stuff&#8217; (mainly button links, or actual links) and of course everything else printed on there is from me as well.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m in the works of creating a website for my photography shots (though I&#8217;m still far from being a Pro like your hubby is), but the lady that did my blog said she doesn&#8217;t do flash headers, which I would love to having showing some various images I took with my camera.  </p>
<p>Do you have a tab that shows your fees for designing sites or just custom flash headers?  What about if I say I&#8217;m related to you or your hubby, would that decrease the cost???  I&#8217;m not though, but what if I were to say I was?  Would it deduct anything?  LOL&#8230;.can&#8217;t keep that going to well!  LOL!  </p>
<p>Nice to meet you.  Love you site and what you&#8217;ve done with your husbands professional header as well.  Looks awesome!!</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle H</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-6792</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle H</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 19:58:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my goodness, those are great!  I&#039;m new at blogging, and still figuring my blog-self out, but those are all things that have perturbed me in my blogsurfing adventures! Especially the spell-check.  Just this morning I came across a photography site that had beautiful pictures, but there were misspelled family members names (they&#039;d be spelled one way in the title and a different way in the post)as well as misspelled words in every post.  Guess how long I stayed on? Another one that bothers me is being linked to an &quot;invitation only&quot; blog.  Seriously? Maybe there is a legitimate reason for this, but I haven&#039;t thought of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my goodness, those are great!  I&#8217;m new at blogging, and still figuring my blog-self out, but those are all things that have perturbed me in my blogsurfing adventures! Especially the spell-check.  Just this morning I came across a photography site that had beautiful pictures, but there were misspelled family members names (they&#8217;d be spelled one way in the title and a different way in the post)as well as misspelled words in every post.  Guess how long I stayed on? Another one that bothers me is being linked to an &#8220;invitation only&#8221; blog.  Seriously? Maybe there is a legitimate reason for this, but I haven&#8217;t thought of it.</p>
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		<title>By: Crystal</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-6770</link>
		<dc:creator>Crystal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 05:47:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK, ok, I will take the music off my blog. Valid point stated well. 

Your boys are precious by the way.

Thanks for making me laugh with your 10 tips.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, ok, I will take the music off my blog. Valid point stated well. </p>
<p>Your boys are precious by the way.</p>
<p>Thanks for making me laugh with your 10 tips.</p>
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		<title>By: Sandra</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-6440</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2009 21:54:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a new blogger, I found these tips helpful--thank you for taking the time to compile them!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a new blogger, I found these tips helpful&#8211;thank you for taking the time to compile them!</p>
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		<title>By: Darcy</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-1/#comment-6209</link>
		<dc:creator>Darcy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 06:04:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Install Akismet!  It&#039;s a pretty powerful WP plug in that will put a stop to those annoying spam comments on Wordpress blogs.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Install Akismet!  It&#8217;s a pretty powerful WP plug in that will put a stop to those annoying spam comments on WordPress blogs.  <img src='http://my3boybarians.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: orangepekoe</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-5630</link>
		<dc:creator>orangepekoe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 09:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this was useful. thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this was useful. thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Ilona</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-5575</link>
		<dc:creator>Ilona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 15:36:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These were good guidelines for people who want to increase traffic on their blog. I think some of these are personal preferences because it&#039;s never bothered me if someone doesn&#039;t have their picture in the blog, I&#039;ve just always thought that they want to keep potential stalkers away. Sometimes word verification is annoying if it&#039;s difficult to see the letters but generally I understand the need for it and definitely keep on visiting the blog :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These were good guidelines for people who want to increase traffic on their blog. I think some of these are personal preferences because it&#39;s never bothered me if someone doesn&#39;t have their picture in the blog, I&#39;ve just always thought that they want to keep potential stalkers away. Sometimes word verification is annoying if it&#39;s difficult to see the letters but generally I understand the need for it and definitely keep on visiting the blog <img src='http://my3boybarians.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Elizabeth (blue clear sky)</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-5566</link>
		<dc:creator>Elizabeth (blue clear sky)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 21:53:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the tips! They are very timely and as I am relatively new to blogging very appreciated. I went right away and got rid of the music and added my photo again. A friend went on and on about privacy and had me a little freaked out. Thanks again!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the tips! They are very timely and as I am relatively new to blogging very appreciated. I went right away and got rid of the music and added my photo again. A friend went on and on about privacy and had me a little freaked out. Thanks again!</p>
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		<title>By: everydayMOM</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-5552</link>
		<dc:creator>everydayMOM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 13:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great tips! I&#039;m really with you on the photo thing. I want to know who is talking to me! I think all of us can find some way to take a photo that looks OK, even if we are insecure about our looks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I always had my word verification turned off and then I started getting spam. I&#039;m usually pretty good with technology, but I couldn&#039;t figure out how to delete my comments. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, I turned on the word verification. I really want to turn it back off, so please let me know if you have advice! I read your comments to WP users, but I&#039;m on blogger.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great tips! I&#39;m really with you on the photo thing. I want to know who is talking to me! I think all of us can find some way to take a photo that looks OK, even if we are insecure about our looks.</p>
<p>I always had my word verification turned off and then I started getting spam. I&#39;m usually pretty good with technology, but I couldn&#39;t figure out how to delete my comments. </p>
<p>So, I turned on the word verification. I really want to turn it back off, so please let me know if you have advice! I read your comments to WP users, but I&#39;m on blogger.</p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer</title>
		<link>http://my3boybarians.com/2009/06/10-blogging-mistakes/comment-page-2/#comment-5550</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 03:38:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very well said! (#10 is something that has irked me for the longest time!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very well said! (#10 is something that has irked me for the longest time!)</p>
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